Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Mary Paling with the following comment:
I believe this is the gravestone of my mothers Grandfather. I still live in Middlesbrough and intend to visit the cemetry to see the grave for myself. I did not know this source of information existed and I thank you for all of your hard work fin untaking this daunting task as I know it is a very large graveyard.